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36-40,
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writes:I met this girl in College and fell head over heels. We've been trying to go for a date for almost 3 months now but she keeps saying I'm really busy but we will have to find a day. I didn't want to come off desperate so I haven't pushed it very hard. She hasn't blatantly rejected me yet but I get the impression that she only has a low interest level in me but she is under my skin and I just can't seem to give up on her even thought all my friends tell me too. I tried giving up befor and then she texted me asking when we were going on a date. Is it completely hopeless or should I try being a little more persistent?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Hey sweetness,
Yes, I agree with the other Aunts that it's time to give this gal some room to breathe and maybe time to back off for a bit. She doesn't sound terribly interested in a relationship right now, and being more persistent won't really help your chances.
I think it's time for you to start moving on and finding a girl who's not going to blow you off. Any girl who's psyched about dating you will make the time to!
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 No, I think you should be much less persistent, as in "never asking her for a date again". Her interest level is very low. If it were high, SHE would ask you for a date, or at least she wouldn't give you good old "I'm busy". She might be stringing you along. Of course there's her little text about seeing you, but she never finds the time. Pay attention to actions, not words.
My heartfelt opinion is that you should move on, the sooner, the better. Your friends are so right.
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