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writes: Hey,The problem is I havent seen my girlfriend for around 2-3 weeks now. I've asked her to come over to my house lots of times; she seems to always have an excuse not to!I'll explain the situation: I usually see my girlfriend every Saturday with all my friends but we have our own special time when we are on our own, once or twice each week. It's usually on the weekdays, but none of that for the past few weeks, maybe because her sister came over for holiday recently and she's busy. I know she can still find time for me because she does for her friends.Do you think we are about to end? Maybe she likes someone else? I just don't get it. Doesn't she want to spend time with me?Btw we have been out for 9 months already.Thank you very much Reply to this Question
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (6 January 2006):
 There may or may not be someone else in the picture. There is no way of knowing for sure unless you ask her yourself. It seems to me that perhaps she would like some time off from the relationship. If so, then she's being pretty rude by not being up front about it. It must be hurtful that she is replacing what used to be your special time alone together with other activities, and that she has managed to find time for her friends but not for you. You should try confronting her about her behavior (in an assertive, yet appropriate manner) to figure out what is going on. Three weeks is a long time to go without seeing your significant other. Something is definitely up.
Good luck!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (5 January 2006):
 I am sorry to say that it sounds as if it is almost over. Most of the time a girl will want to spend time with her boyfriend. You should probably ask her what is going on and be ready for the worst.
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