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writes:My ex left me 3.5 months ago because she lost her love for me. She's sort of seeing someone else at the moment but nothing serious for about 3 months although she had lied about not seeing anyone, I accidently found out.Her reason for lying is she didn't want to hurt me while I am under a lot of stress over other problems and she's not sure about this other person she is seeing either. I felt angry about the lie but my friends said there's no need to be it's because of a good cause.Now she wants to get back with me, I don't know if I can trust her anymore. She started dating as soon as she left me she also said there is someone else she is fancying too. I'm confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (13 October 2007):
 hi all relationships rely on honesty and trust,i feel that because you do not have either of these in your relationship its is safer to move on and not take her back, i have found through life that if some one lies to you once they will lie again,i would ask myself why does she really want me back,she has another boy friend, is she pregnant and wanting you to take responsibility for the child, so that she can go out with other blokes leaving you to hold the baby,or has the boyfriend found out she was seeing other blokes behind his back,what ever the reason your life would be better off without her,the best thing for you to do is to find a nice girl who is honest and you trust each other, then you will have a better and happier relationship which will hopefully last a life time hope this is helpful good luck
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reader, hotty +, writes (13 October 2007):
if i were you i'd tell her to mind the door doesnt hit her ass on the way out!!! she actually told you she lost love for you, but now here she is saying she wants you back!!! if my partner told me that i would honestly be crushed and angry. it seems to me that she uses you for security purposes as she knows how you feel towards her. My advice to you is not to be a door mat, stand your ground and tell her to naff off. If she cared about you in the first place she wouldnt lie or cause you pain. dont be confused, be strong!!!
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (7 October 2007):
You can't trust her. She has done this twice. Why not find a more loyal gal?
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