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writes:basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know what to do. he isnt dating the girl he kissed and im wondering what i should do. shall i stick around and hope he fancies me again or do i move on and find someone else. please help me, i'm so confused. and he has found out that i like him and told one of my friends that he cant stop thinking about what she said and was she sure that i liked him in that way. help. nothing is awkward and we are getting on as normal i just don't know what to do. i don't want to lose him as a friend. he always puts his arm around me and hugs me for a bit but when we met up a few days ago we were with some friends and he put his arm around me like all the time and the other arm around me (almost like a hug) and then when we were waiting for the bus i couldnt stay up so he put his arm around me and kept me up. i really like him but it hurts so much because everytime he gets a text or a phonecall when he's with me i automatically assume its from the girl he kissed. help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand he knows that i like him but it hasnt become awkward or at least he is suspiscious that i like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm really scared about talking to him, he's my best friend if i talk about it and he doesnt feel the same way its going to get really awkward. how would i go about it?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
You need to talk to him. you weren't going out with him when he kissed the other girl, and he isn't dating her now. Yet he puts his arms around you and such. I think he does like you, so why don't you talk to him about it. you need to be brave, because if you aren't, he will find someone else. Talk to him.
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