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writes: Hi Again!I have something thats troubling me.Just recently I have become depressed. I have been watching "24" since it began and my feelings for Kiefer Sutherland have suddennly grew. It started off as admiration for him as he is a wonderful actor. When i did some research shortly after I found out he is a really nice person.Now the reserch i did was very thorough, I know that you can create false personalities to a pretty face, however I seem to love pretty much most of Kiefer's personality.Just over a week ago i had a dream about Kiefer. I woke up the next morning to find myself thinking about him all day. I am not in love with him, or addicted to him,i just admire him.I couldnt stop thinking of him and i plan to send him a letter. I am a very good writer and i have wrote a season of 24. I want to get into film writing and i know Kiefer is a Director, so im going to ask for hints and tips to help me.The problem is, i dont dare send this letter, i want a reply and i know Kiefer does write them, but with all the fan mail he probably recieves it would take a while to eventually read mine.Its not just that. I have the urge to meet him. I want to ask him about his life and himself and his work. I have often become upset because i know i probably wont ever meet him. Has anyone got any idea's on what i can do?Thanks.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
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of course you write that letter, if he choses to ignore it or not reply, that's his loss, not yours. go for it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2006): No.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2006): By all means write the letter but don't put this celebrity on too high a pedestal. When I was growing up, I met my celebrity crush and he didn't seem quite as nice in person as I'd imagine he'd be. Often the reality is not the same as the dream. I was also shocked to meet other women who were quite clearly obsessed with this man and came across as odd and sinister - like going to meet this man everywhere he was going to be and spending ALL their money on any chance to see this man. Just be aware of keeping your celebrity crush healthy and not an all-consuming obsession. I'm just urging you to exercise caution so that you don't get hurt.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (29 March 2006):
 I think that you should write the letter. In it don't write about how much you want to meet him and ask him about his life etc... because to be honest that is very unlikely to happen. Also it might scare him off reading your letter and giving you the most helpful feedback. Just think how would you react to receiving a letter from a random person saying they want to meet you and ask you about your life and yourself etc.
There is nothing wrong with admiring a person for the work they do, but just try to remember that the media will print things and interviews are designed to draw fans in... They are not going to make you hate him because that won't help their sales. You must remember that in his business he must come across as completely nice, with a nice lifestyle, he wants people to admire him, remember when everyone had a crush on Leonardo Di Caprio??
Saying that if its career advice you are after and an expert opinion on your writing then there's is absolutely no problem with asking the professionals. You are very right in saying it could take a while to get a reply- so send your script to lots of professionals not just him (You never know it might get used) I think you shuld motivate yourself towards media training / script writing courses and start working on your desired career in order to help with your depression.....
Let us know how you get on, from Sexybum x
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