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writes:hey, this is gunna be long but i really need the help. see back in 8th grade i dated this guy for a year it was a on-off relationship and then in 9th we had a dance and he didnt go to our school so he couldnt come and 2 of my friends got jealous i guess cause they called him later that night and said i was just using him, but i really wasnt. and ive had another b/f since this and i really liked him when we werent going out but when he actually asked me i got scared but said yes and then like the next day it was like all those feelings went away, so i ended it a week later. And now this other guy likes me and i like him but he asked me out and im afraid that itll happen again, cause this guy is like my bestfriend.please help i dont know whats wrong with me
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reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (1 February 2009):
hey. i see ur problem nd i sort of faced thhe same thing. i dont think ur being bad at all. if u nd ur first guy have been on-off then it shudnt matter. u shud go out with this guy cuz u probably no everything bout him cuz u guys r best frends nd ur letting urself furget that u like him. u shud act lik ur self round him but still spice things up as in gf-bf. thnx. check out some of mii questions maybe u cud halp mii. :) good luck!!!!
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 OK- first of all, a bad girlfriend would never even care about whether or not she's bad. Secondly, who ever that "friend" was, get rid of em! I Don't think you're being a bad gf, you're just being a teenager. However the fact that your behaviour is worrying you shows that you are recognising that it offer to change. You can't just drop a relationship because the mushy feelhogs fade- thats no way to live your life. You're in danger of growing up to be someone who could really mess up future relationships for herself because of emotional volitility. Let me let you in on a little secret about love: it doesnt always feel nice. Think about it- I'm sure you love your family, but do you always feel mushy about them? See what I'm saying?
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