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writes:I've been in a sexual relationship with my second cousin. Is this wrong? We are in love. Its not something we sought out. It just happened.
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reader, whowonttoknow0527 +, writes (21 January 2011):
i have been with my nephew since 07 but we use to sleep with eachother when we were young and i never throught it was wrong to sleep with him but with other men cuz i was not felling them i ran from him as long as i could but that was not the way to go cuz it just led me back to him and we are happy and in love and yes our family had there 2cents but in all like my aunt told us familys has been doing this befor us and will be doing this after us and you need to do your research on it and dont do it just to do it do it cuz you the love the person and you dont care what nobody says about you we dont and wont to get married in the next year so good luck with yall weather you make it our you dont good luck!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (17 January 2011):
We can't help who we fall in love with, and fortunately for you, you are not breaking the law by having a relationship with your 2nd cousin.
I know someone who did the same, they have been together 15 years, are now married and have 3 wonderful children and are very happy. At first there were a few unhappy people, making snide comments, but they soon got bored and moved on to something else to gossip about.
There may be a few relatives that find it hard to accept, especially if you are all close, however, I suggest you stand tall and don't let other peoples comments come between you.....Life is too short!
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Legally it's not wrong but since you are blood related you will get some judgement from other people. As long you re comfortable with it and you are in love I don't think it matter what anyone else thinks.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Legally and genetically there's no problem. If you're a particularly close family you might raise some eyebrows: "Wrong" is to some extent in the eye of the beholder.
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (17 January 2011):
 In the eyes of the law no, its perfectly legal, you family though might have some moral issues about it.
I once fell for my second cousin and we thought it could work. But as teenagers it could never work out and our families wouldn't have been happy about it. But if we could have, we'd have made it work.
I hope it works out for you.
All the best, Dataluke
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