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writes:Your sexuality is not an expression of freedom.I mean, after all, do you think that several billion people on this planet have sex drives of their own free will, as if all these people thought of these things independently, on their own?No, you do not have a sex drive of your own free will. Therefore to say anything like promiscuity, homosexuality, pornography or even marriage is an expression of our “rights” or “freedom” is inaccurate to say the least.Mother Nature has a quota of bodies it all wants us to make and she is going to make sure it gets done and does not care if the bodies get along with each other or not. She may care about monogamy, though, as she seems to come up with plenty of diseases to punish promiscuity.I laugh at people who think their sexual oddities are an expression of their freedom or their individualism. There is nothing “free” or “individual” about your sex drive at all. It is part of your genetic programming and maybe you have modified it a little bit, but it is not derived from freedom of choice by any means.You think having multiple partners is an expression of your freedom? It is nothing of the sort. You just happen to be chewing on more bait than the other rats do in Mother Nature’s trap of mental manipulation known as sexual desire.Now I will agree that sexual pleasure is seems to be a gift from God. And conversely, using the same metaphor, sexual DESIRE is the curse of the devil.So many “I-couldn’t-help-its” end up causing divorces. And divorce can be very expensive.So I am sorry, there is little freedom when it comes to sex. You are human, you want it, and you may enjoy it, sometimes you deal with a lot of misery to get it or because of it.But you can have freedom from sexual desire. And interesting enough, taking away your sexual desire does not take away your sexual pleasure. But you finally have some sort of power of choice in the matter.Now because I did not want to put up this article to push any particular brand of anaphrodisiac (sex drive inhibitor) I will here give the names of a few herbal supplements that claim to have libido reducing properties:Licorice RootValerian RootShizandraVitex (Chasteberry)L-PhenylalanineGABARuta GraveonlensOf course, follow manufacturer’s directions and consult your doctor if necessary.I want to tell you that just on a personal level that I feel the calmness of a Zen Master when I use these. I am able to think more clearly, especially in sexual matters because the gnawing desire is taken out of the equation.And I still have sexual pleasure despite the desire being minimized.THIS is freedom.
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