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Sexual dilemma with my cousin...

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Question - (14 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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I'm having quite a dilemma at the moment. Me and my cousin have been really close since birth; we can talk about anything and we are the closest out of all cousins. At a young age, we'd often freely talk and explore the topic of sex. Now, we're both 18 years old, and she's hotter than ever... She often references sexual things about herself which are directed to me. When I got circumcised a couple months ago, she asked if she could see my penis, and one time when I was examining it in my room, she passed by in the hallway, taking once glance after she passed my door, then peeked over to take another glance. There are soo many times when I think she wants to have sex but I'm just so unsure. I don't want any comments about incest or anything; but do you think she is attracted to me based off these observations?

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A female reader, smij Kuwait +, writes (17 April 2010):

cannot tell what your cousin is up to. is it ok to marry her?

if you ge well together that is a good suggestion. as for having sex... for the reason that you talk openly each other you can try to find from her.

my opinion is, avoid sex out of marriage - only because our societies don't respect it.

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A male reader, fallen in love United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

you know what! I am in the very same boat also with my cousin to. I just made up my question to on here but anyways she is 29 going on 30 and Im 42 she also has a long time crush on me just like I have on her and we also talk alot about sex between me and her and she has seen my privates should we say and I seen hers. if you love your cousin that much like I do then I would go for it. if not then you will probably regret then someday. jmo there.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntTo answer your question directly, she is comfortable with you, not interested in you. She sees you as a safe person to talk about sex to. If you make a sexual approach to her you will ruin all that.

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A male reader, Dekten Netherlands +, writes (14 April 2010):

It's not incest. This is something you can explore, but there's a rather high chance of it not ending well. It's up to you guys.

I agree 100% with Soon567's remark: "If you want to go for it I would make sure the two of you are alcohol free."

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