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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have this extreme urge to just make out with my teacher and have sex with him. I feel like he likes me too. I don't know. I'm confused. =\btw: I'm 15. He is 37.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (23 March 2008):
 I'm with you, Anonymous male reader, I fell for this one the other day, and gave it a sympathetic piece of advice, but after reading a pattern of them, I feel I cannot respond to them anymore. I can't be wasting my time with these sort of obsessions. I'm finding it hard now whether to believe them or not.
Sorry female age 13-15, anonymous writer, I will leave this one now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Can someone please explain to me why so many young teenage girls like this one are falling in love with and want to have sex with male teachers who are more than 20 years older than they are? I mean, what is up with that? What would a 15 year-old girl find sexually attractive in a 37-year-old man? Does this happen a lot, and if so, WHY??????It doesn't make any sense to me at all!! How can a 15 year-old girl be sexually turned on by a man who is so much older than she is? Can any women here explain why this happens?
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reader, BigSis +, writes (21 March 2008):
Honey, don't even go there. Please take our advice, that's what we're here for - and that's why you're here now.
Take a look at the other thread, almost a carbon copy of this one. A girl the same age as you went with her guitar teacher, who was also of the same age as your teacher.
She is now is claiming he used her, and I can, 100%guaranteeyou - you will get hurt too, not to mention if you're both found out...think of the consequences. Is it really worth the risk of possibly ruining both your lives?
Fantasy is a wonderful thing, use it as much as you like, but take it no further, and do not let it materialise.
Best wishes Hon xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): I have the same feelings about my teacher, i'm always fantasising about him and me having sex! It's just a phase which should pass over in time.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Hummm the young lady with three threads going on this has a 37 year old teacher too, coincident?
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reader, Sandman +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Sexual feelings at this age are a part of the normal maturation process. It's not a bad thing that you have these natural feelings.
Lots of young people tend to have "crushes" on persons much older than them. All kinds of feelings swirl around and they tend to want to act on those feelings. With him being your teacher, by acting on those feelings, you run the risk of your teacher losing his job and being arrested. You run the risk of developing a bad name for yourself.
Try to focus that attention and those feelings to boys your own age. I'm not condoning having sex, but the feelings you feel are more for those around your own age.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Okay... well, just... uh... don't.
Its that simple.
Your hormones are going through the roof, preparing you for mating and child-bearing.
But honestly, you have to ask yourself what would a 37 year old man want with a teenager when he has and entire world of girls above the age of consent at his fingertips?
That and it'd be the end of his career and possibly a stint in prison and you would most likely be branded a slut by your friends and those around you.
So yeah. Just keep a lid on it. This world does not want for horny 15 year old boys for you to play around with.
Flynn 24
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reader, leeann +, writes (19 March 2008):
hun o my gosh
i know what you are fealing is very real but you have got to understand your hormons are crazzy at this age . and not to mention that you in the worlds eyes are just a child and there are so many things that could happen he is a grown man .and you never realy know a person you dont know what he could do to you or even if he is perfecty sain do you know how much trouble you could get in and he him self could get in . and getting pregnant at 15 could ruen the rest of your life and a grown man could never just make out with a beutiful young girl. it could get out of controule and someone could get hurt. i think you should think about this long and hard think of the cosuqences of you actions and stay a kid as long as you can the evils adulthud will come soon enough good luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): No, no, no. You like him because he's an authority figure and trust me... he only likes you as a student. If for any reason it was anything more he'd be facing several years in jail if he acted on it. Don't think about it anymore and move on.
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