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female
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36-40,
*opezditaliax3
writes: My husband and I have been together for a little over a year, we used to be real good in the sex department. We would fool around a lot, and it was great everytime. Now he won't even touch me. It's kisses to let me know he's horny and then blow me and sex. He asks if I finish, but how do I tell him that foreplay is part of the ride, for me and him as well? Is he just not into me anymore, or do I need to spell it out to him more often?
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reader, dragonette +, writes (11 February 2007):
Start off your naughty adventures by showering together, soaping each other up is good foreplay.
You can buy massage oil and ask him to use it on you.
Tell him you loved how he used to [insert something you miss here] and ask him to do it.
Get some new ideas for the horizontal activities
Perhaps your husband is just stuck in a rut. Or maybe he thinks that he can get lazy now just because the two of you have been together so long. It's up to you to make him re-think his policies.
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