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*rittbritt09
writes:how do you know if your cherrie has been completely poped or all the extra skin has broke??? please give me sum answers becouse im 16 iv had sex about 25 or more times w/ the same guy and it hurts every time and i hate it! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): I knew a woman who was married for 13 years and had sex several times a week, and she mentioned to her doctor during her yearly gyne exam that sex hurt. He told her the hymen had never been broken or stretched enough. A simple office procedure took care of it. She still didn't like sex much, though. I don't know why. I think it was psychological by that time, not physical. In other words, she let the pain go on so many years that she feared sex even when the pain was gone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): to add to MuffinGirl very good advise.. you may not be lubed enough... so get to the store and buy astroglyde.. or ky jelly... both are water solvable. this i believe along with the relaxation techniques will help alot.
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reader, lovemybabe17 +, writes (7 October 2009):
well, that really isn't normal after the second or third time. i'm not a doctor, but try not having sex for a week and if it still hurts after that than i would consider going to the doctor. good luck
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (6 October 2009):
I really doubt it has anything to do with your hymen, it probably went long ago.
I also have that problem, I am quite a bit older than you, I have visited my doctor about it. My problem is I tend to bleed, even from fingers, but I also have uterine fibroids.
I am not a doctor, but I think you should go see a doctor and have yourself checked out, any woman who is sexually active should be checked out at least once a year. It could be vaginal dryness, maybe try some lubrication. I understand how you're feeling, its not pleasurable when it hurts.
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 It was the same with me a couple of years ago. Your skin definetely has broken if you have had sex for 25 times.
I have one a bit unconvencial advice for you: buy yourself a vibrator. It should be the right size for you, just a bit thicker than your guy's cock. And buy vaseline too. Use it while you mastrubate- it might hurt you at first, but eventually you'll start enojoying it. And your vagina will get a bit wider.
The other advantage of vibrator is that you loose fear of cock. You're probably unconsciouslly afraid of chance that penetration would give you pain. Once you lose that fear and TRUELY realise that sex is about pleasure and that there is no chance of feeling pain during it, you would start enjoying it. If this doesn't help.. well.. there is one more question. Are you sure you're relaxed and wet enough? If you're not, use vaseline or make your foreplay longer and think about dirty things. ;)
I hope this will make you some sense.
Good luck!
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