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writes:hey. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for mmm six months and well we have sex alot. and i mean alot. but it seems thats all we do when we're alone, we dont just hangout you know. i mean we do sometimes....but it leads to sex. and its like either one or the other has the urge to do it. and i dont know is that a bad thing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): How quick in the relationship did you start to have sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): It can be...if you bring this to his attention on the regular basis or try to change the routine, he might get upset and stop having sex with you all together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): If you're both enjoying it that way then great.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Spend sometime with him just kissing and cuddeling him NO SEX though.....you might enjoy it...see if your relationship has anything more to give then sex by just not having it all the time.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (15 August 2008):
I think that it is a bad thing if you have sex pretty much every time you 'hang out'. Its important to have a balance in your life and in any relationship you have. Its also important to be able to spend time with each other just talking and so on, and not having sex, because a healthy relationship has to be based on more then just sex.
Ask yourself why you guys always have sex everytime and dont just spend time hanging out. Apart from having high sex drives, is it possible that you two dont have enough in common to talk about much if you only just hang out? Is it possible that one of you are trying to avoid doing something else so sex is the easy option? Is it possible that one of you are only really interested in sex? Just some things to think about.
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