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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:A couple of weeks ago i had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend of 3 months. Since then we've had sex a LOT...the weird thing is though, its still hurting me and Im pretty sure my hymen is still, intact. Can anyone PLEASE explain why its still hurting after all this time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): It hurt the 1st SEVERAL times for me too, it will gradually become more comfortable. In the meantime, all I can say is LUBE, LUBE, LUBE and don't EVER forget the protection.
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reader, love-him +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Hey babe, no ur hymen wont still be intact if he is actualy having sex with you, you may not be wet enough, he may be going in too deep, he may have a large 'penis'.. there are many reasons chick. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x
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reader, carebearer +, writes (2 July 2007):
Im not sure if a hymen could be intact for that long after initial sex. It may be that you are not wet enough before penetration, make sure your lover is very attentive to you, that you feel very aroused and do lots of foreplay.Although I must remind you that the legal age for sex in UK is 16+, and you are partaking in under age sex. It may be that this could be something that you are worrying about. I would actually advice you to stop having sex for the moment and wait until you are legally old enough for sex and when you are on contraception and using condoms. especially as one symptom of an STI is painful sex, you may need to get yourself checked out at a GUM clinic or at the docs. Goodluck though hun.
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