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writes:hey, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now. And honestly he is the most amazing guy i could have dreamed of having. But there is a part of me that wonders if he is sincere in being only mine... and I want to think that its just me being paranoid but I cannot help but wonder.There is this girl who I have never met, nor have many of his friends. However when I am with him, she always texts him. One night it was out of control and I blew up at him. I was really upset and started crying about how he is with me yet texting her constantly. That was the only night that he really was paying more attention to her than me, but it was noteworthy. He told me that he was having problems with his family and since we were out he couldnt just tell me with our other friends there. And that she is the only person he can talk to about it because she has problems too. It made me a bit uncomfortable because why would he feel more comfortable telling a girl he has told me he has only met 3 times all his problems than me his own gf?? but whatever. So I ask him, so you dont like alicia and u never have? And he swears to me that it isnt like that and she is just a friend. He always brings up the fact that she is only 16 and has a fiance. But I dont know if I believe it. I went to her myspace and it says she goes to college. So I am guessing that whole 16 thing was a lie. Then I went back and look at pictures from one of his parties I couldnt make right before we were in a "Relationship" but while we were dating, and he told me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me.. blah blah. Well the same girl is in a bunch of the pictures and he is holding her and kissing her on the cheek and stuff. Mind you on the cheek but you can see te way he is holding her. And she made a comment like oh we look sooo cute together! Idk, should I not be worried that he talks to her as often as he does? It wouldnt be so bad if I had met her, or his friends like knew her. But it seems like only he knows her and talks to her so often. He hasnt been texting her when he is with me since, but I still worry.Please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): even though it sounds as if your boyfriend has had an itimate past with this girl, i can only guess it all ended when your relationship became offical. after all, he is openly with you. and, it does sound very much to me as if they are just friends, unless you find more proof.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Hey babe i understand what you are sayin, id be the same but people will probly say ur just jelous.. you need to let him know, make him understand, maybe you txt a lad hes not met before.. Ohh he hasnt been txting her since .. well i think you need to calm down with him, have a nice time with him, and put hrer to the back of your mind, because it will eat away at you.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): Hi, I don't know you but it seems like he is going to end up hurting you. You really don't deserve that and i am sure there is someone out there for you that would really appreciate your worth.no one should take you for granted. Maybe if you told this guy that you need time away from him and see if he contacts you first, then may be he is worth a second chance but if he doesn't come back then he wasn't worth it, just let him go. Good Luck.
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