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Sex is leaving me in a lot of pain ..

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Question - (8 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, im 16 and iv been withmy boyfriend for about 6 months.

we do have sexual intercorse and started about 5 months ago.

when we first started having sex i was fine i could do it with him all the time, but then i stopped taking the pill because i leterally forgot to take it for about 4 days then stupidly took them all at once!( i must of been high ) anyways ever since i stopped taking the pill everytime we have sex it hurts me so much i have to lay on my bed for like 45 mins until the pain goes away a little bit, sometimes after sex it hurts so much i get him to get me sudocream ( healing cream) and just wait until that sinks in but i can only put that around me the outside of my vagina, not in because "apparently" it can course infections.

i went to the doctor and he said it might have something to do with the soap i use, so i changed to sorbaline. then it went away for a while.

But still i still get the pain?

it frustrates me so much because i want to be able to have sex with him like i used to and i dont know if it has anythign to do with not being wet enough?

or it might not even be about the pill, but i just need help:(

if you have any advice please please please right back as soon as possible because it is just soooo annoying and painfull.

thanks heaps

X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010):

The best thing is to go back to your doctor. If they don't know what the problem is then they might refer you to a specialist who can help solve the problem. This is a medical issue, therefore you need to seek medical advice. I would stop having sex in the meantime and make a doc's appt. asap. We are not qualified to give you proper advice here, even if any of us are gynaecologists. You need a proper appt with a doctor who will take a history, etc.

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A female reader, Myrrh United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2010):

Myrrh agony auntHello. If you havent changed anything in the way of sexual activity but now it hurts when it didnt before, then my advice is to phone your doctors surgery and ask to see a lady doctor. Go back and explain your symptoms again. What ever is wrong needs sorting out and it doesnt sound as if the first doctors opinion helped you much if you are still in pain. Id also stop having sex until youve got it sorted out because it cant be very enjoyable for you at the moment and it might be making things worse. So get things checked first. And you cant use any creams inside your vagina unless it says for internal use. Go and speak to a lady doctor x

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A female reader, loraemoon United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2010):

loraemoon agony auntright first off please start taking the pill or use condoms you really dont want any unwanted pregnancies, are you relaxed enough during sexual intercourse? i would say try using a lubricant you can get it in the chemist it could be about dryness its worth a try good luck

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