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*alfamoto
writes:I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months now, we have sex on a semi regular basis, but im getting bored of the same old positions, ive asked her if we could try different stuff (non freaky things) but she doesnt seem intrested.. i don't like to say im getting bored of sex but its getting a bit samey.. should i properly confront her? what should i say to her?thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): communication is the basic need in a relationship. if its someone who realy loves you,she wount take it offensive when you talk about it. talk about it and sugest that she gives you a chance to try it out. try something new and if she does not like it try another stunt after another until she will be interested in some. make sure you give her your best shot.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (27 November 2007):
As a man she'd like you to initiate most things.So take the lead but take her opinion into consideration.She may be the shy type when it comes to sex.She may not be as experinced as you would like her to be.Try out new positions and teach her new things you would like her to do.With time she'll open up to you and you'll be amazed at what she can do.Don't be quick to judge her but try to understand her more.Google lovemaking tecniques or mail me if you wana learn more.All the best.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Well I don't know about her, but when I was at your age I didn't really know much about sex or what to do in bed, so maybe you should try nicely to guide her and tell her exactly what you mean. If she is not very experienced she may not know much about what she likes. Maybe you should ask her if you can try some different things and she can tell you if she likes it or not and then you can find out what is good for both of you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Why don't you just try new things? Of course, take care these "new things" also go with her tastes.
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