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writes: so im just curious as to what all of your opinions are on what the bases are? like when a guy "gets to second base" or "third"....stuff like that. i have discussed this with a few friends, both male and female, and it seems the males have a very different idea of what they think the bases are from the females.... so if you could...please let me in on your opinions
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (20 June 2006):
 I think Dolomite has put down what most see as "generally speaking" the bases but the main thing is that you only do what you feel comfortable with.
Don't label your relationship or sexual activities. Just enjoy them and do only want you want to.
Doesn't matter what other people perceive has happened or not happened. As long as you are happy with how fast or slow things are moving in that direction that is all that matters.
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reader, Dolomite +, writes (19 June 2006):
I believe the previous two poster have left off a base (The bases are in reference to baseball)1. Kissing2. Groping (normally the breasts, below the shirt)3. Genital contact (manual or oral)4. (Home Run) penetrative sex.Regardless of how far your friends have gone (or say they have gone, there is often quite a difference between what is boasted about and actually done) how far you go is purely a personal decision. You move how far and how fast you are comforatble with, there is plenty of time to get there at your own pace.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
auntie claire is spot on with her answer above she is right about what bases mean what actions... ok don't let anyone lead you into thinking any different cause they'd be lying... don't respond to peer pressure either only go to whichever base you are comfortable at ok on have full sex if your happy and comfortable to do so.. :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (19 June 2006):
 dear reader as far as i'm awear first base is just kissing, second base is using fingers and oral sex and third base is penitrational sex.
i think thats right but if not do let me know lol
all the best xxx
p.s i hope your not too young to be worring about all this
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