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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ive recently got back in touch with a female who is older than me. However i have developed strong feelings for her and think I love her. I told her via email that i thought she was special and that i cared for her. I havent heard anything from her no response nothing. I really dont know what to do, do i leave her alone or what? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Rachelann960739  +, writes (24 August 2007):
If she does no email back then she is probability not interested! ~Good Luck~
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male
reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Guys have this problem all the time. It's often interpreted as "playing hard to get". You can keep trying and lose a bit of dignity in the process - but at least you know you tried. Or , as others have said - leave it at that - allow a reasonable timescale for a response (7 days?) and if no response move on - it wasn't meant to be. Good luck
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reader, smeedle +, writes (23 August 2007):
 I agree with DJ, you have set out your stall and now it is up to her to either buy or walk away.
She could be silent for many innocent reasons like e-mail off, computer broken, holiday etc.
Or she could just be thinking about what you wrote and mulling it over before making her reply.
I realise barring you heart was not easy but you did it and that is that, she will either respond or not and even if she does respond it may not be to say she has the same feelings for you as you do for her.
Be patient.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Yes, let her contact you. Don't bring up your deep feelings for her again unless she does first.
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