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Does no really mean no?

Q.   I've been getting a lot of nos lately. "No, I can't go out on a date with you." "No, I have a boyfriend." "No, you can not have my number." Those are just examples of what I've been going through lately. I don't get it. I can understand that ...

A.   19 August 2012: well, if a girl says no it could be because she's feeling shy or is nervous that you're not serious. girls don't want to make a fool of themselves. try flirting some more and hen ask again. if she says no twice then leave it - she knows you like her ... (read in full...)

Low sex drive and not getting wet

Q.   hi,i have been wit my boyfriend for a year and 5 months now. we are stil very much inlove,but i dont get wet when we are making love. im afraid to lose him over this,we tried lubricants it helps to get me wet but what should i do to increase/improve ...

A.   7 July 2011: why not suggest watching a film or something before sex, snuggling up with him and watching a film (not neccisarily a dirty film) can increase your bond and make sex moore enjoyable. ... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my professor and he won't be teaching anymore!

Q.   I'm currently in a situation that's causing me a lot of concern...i'm expieriencing something I cannot fathom and I'm afraid this might turn into a depression. A Little Introduction: I have this professor at college. A little detail------ h...

A.   7 July 2011: this sounds rather strange. the fact that you started off by saying how annoying and arrogant he is and yet it has turned into something more, i think that maybe you are confusing love with a combination of hatred and yet sympathy which can create a ... (read in full...)

Seeing him each Friday is the greatest 10 minutes of my week! So how do I stop liking him?

Q.   so, where to start, i am 17 and am in love with a man who is quite a lot older than me (he is 38) and ironicly i met him through his wifes' parents and he brother, who are all family friends. i see him on a friday night when i get dinner at the chip ...

A.   7 July 2011: thanks for the help guys, i kind of realises that i need to stop seeing him, but i guess i just need someone to tell me... (read in full...)

Should I send my teacher (who I have a crush on) my facebook friend request again in order to keep in touch with him?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl with a crush on my teacher. Luckily, I am one of his favorite students and he loves me very much (in a teacher-student way, I hope). He is leaving this year to another country and when we said goodbye, he told me to ...

A.   30 June 2011: i say why not, you have nothing to lose, im 17 and i am deeply in love with my old english teacher, unfortunatly he wasn't on facebook, but after a brief chat i asked how i could talk to him and he gave me a link to his bands personal website ans ... (read in full...)

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