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writes:im a 18 year old guy and ive been on a first date with a 22 year old we got along fine but i rushed it too fast we ended up sharing a bed but we didnt have sex, alothe we dont mess around (foreplay).as you can imagine this killed the conversation for the next day it had been a week now and we casually talk a bit i suppose, well quite a lot i just over exajerate with it. he was online when i signed in and i really hadnt a clue what to say to him i still feel awkward about asking him out for another date. i know he likes me otherwise he wouldnt of let it get that far? or would he?he seems the nice type of guy, ive even asked a couple of my friends what they think of him and they think we do have a chance.what shall i say to him to try and get him to come on another date? i already asked for last saturday but he casually turned down as he "was busy" so he put it. well this is only the start of something i dont want to come across too desperate/naggy/clingy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionooooh .... ive asked again :l oops. il take your advice. its his ball now!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 You've asked him once and he was busy. Let him take the ball now. He knows you are interested. If you ask again he may think you're too pushy.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (22 November 2008):
 A good way to find out would be just text him saying "Let me know when you're free for a drink" or whatever.. If you don't hear within like a week, then he's probably not because every decent person would text with a date or an apology for not being free (hence, he cares about you!).
Just an idea - hope it works out! :) xx
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