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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend kept texting me, to begin with it was just about general stuff such as 'how are you?' ect. However when i began replying to his texts after a little while he started asking me to send him seductive pictures. I told him i wasn't going to and didn't text him back anymore. I don't know why he asked me this however i have a funny feeling it could be something to do with 'Revenge' as when he sees me out he always makes horrible comments to others about me such as 'err my ex is over there'. I don't know why he does this? i asked him and he said its revenge as i broke his heart. His latest text however was about him listening to the song 'Lonely this christmas' i replied and then he started asking for pictures again, i told him i wasnt going to send him any as the person i am seeing would not be impressed by this. He then text back saying 'Fair enough' and hasnt spoken to me since. I am worried that i was unkind in doing this? and i don't know why he kept texting me? or saying unkind things about me ? any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have already tried to meet up with him in person to tell him that i know i hurt him however not to want revenge because it will only make things worse as its best to leave them however he declinded this and said he doesnt speak 2 ex girlfriends in person, and when i see him he never speaks too me just acts like nothing ever happened and says cruel unecessary things about me. I dont understand it at all, and i just wish i could get some closure on the whole situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): Tell him in person you know he is hurt and you wish he wasn't, but he isn't doing himself any good being horrible to you and that revenge will in the long run only hurt him.
Then cut contact with him because it is only prologing the agony.
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reader, drama_girl  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 your not mean...it was good you didn't send him any pics.
you left him for a reason, you moved on and so should he.
he probably missed you or revenge as you say.
people we're involved with will usually have a spot in our hearts, cause they're a part of your life and who your becoming.
don't worry, don't look into this too much
have fun cause lifes too short;]
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