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I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like

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Question - (13 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian or bisexual ( i am attracted to men ) or am i just confusing this with my feelings for the actor i like ?. I know she is attracted to men, but i have seen her messsing around with a couple of female friends on photos on a social networking site in quite a sexual way ( it's not explicit ). I know some young people just act daft like that though, especially if they have been drinking lol. I know her in person as well, by the way, but only a little bit.Also, whenever i have seen porn or films in general where the women have sex, i imagine myself having sex with a woman, and also sex with a man. I would actually like to try experimenting with a woman. I'm worried there's something wrong with me !. I never felt attracted to women when i was younger, it's only recently, so if i was a lesbian or bisexual, wouldnt i have felt attracted to women all the time ?.

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A female reader, dididoo United States +, writes (22 October 2009):

i guess the fact she looks like that actor who you are attracted to, does add to the fact that you're attracted to her. obviously, because she looks the way you like for a person to look.

that's part of the reason why you became more curious about women, and you're probably a bit curious regardless.

nothing wrong with it. if you want to experiment go for it, and if you don't then don't. whatever makes you feel good.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009):

Thanks for your reply. Do you think i'm attracted to the girl i mentioned , or could i just be confusing it with how i feel about the actor i like ?. lol it's confusing really. She looks just like a female version of him lol !.It probably sounds strange lol.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (13 October 2009):

kitty_3 agony auntit sounds like you're just suddenly feeling curious, so don't worry. nothing's wrong with you!

if you're attracted to men my guess is that you aren't a lesbian, but straight of bisexual, depending on how much you end up enjoying sex with a woman if you do choose to try it.

i hope this helps :)

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