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writes: I've fallen for a guy who is my mum's b/f's brother!I really like him and we have a great friends relationship. Then one night after a few drinks one thing led to another and we ended up in bed.It was the best sex that I had ever had and he is a stunning guy and he cares a lot for me. Our sexual relationship lasted for about 4 months.He had a coke problem about 1 year ago and came into the country about 6 months ago. He's Portugese.He has had a lot of women/girlfriends and is well known for this in the Esphino. I made sure it was protected sex even tho he claimed that he had been tested etc and was clean.He says he needs to find himself and doesn't see much of a relationship now, whereas there could be one in the future. He said that he can't lie because of the treatment process after the coke problem and that if he did lie he would be lying to himself. Whenever we are around each other we both feel chemistry or maybe I just feel a spark and he just feels a sexual attraction?My mum even knows about the relationship and it not happy about it. Could this be the real reason why he is holding back?Is this a ploy because he used me or is he just being honest? Do I bother to wait for him or just get on with my life?I really don't know what to do I rellly like this guy?Please be honest..
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (8 August 2005):
Sounds like he has replaced his drug addiction with an addiction to you! He's got carried away with the sex and being adored and now he realises that you are falling for him. You need to let him sort himself out without any crutches - drugs or amazing sex.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (8 August 2005):
Sounds to me like he just wants sex and has concocted a sob story to try and justify it to you.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (7 August 2005):
 Sweetheart, my feeling is that this is way too close to home where mom and her b/f are concerned. I am getting the impression that you are way younger than he is and well based on his background....I really think you should move on with your life. I know we should not judge people on their past but sometimes we have to us common sense. A guy can say anything honey, listen to your mom ...they usually have a sixth sense about these things. I know you have fallen hard...but please..sit this one out...take care ..Ana
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2005): He has a coke problem, and your mum's unhappy. I honestly think the fact that he has a drug problem would end things, if anything sex would be better eventually drug use messes with that.
I hope you find another guy who is all you want and more.
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