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writes:Me and my girlfriend have a very close relationship and when we first went out we both had a very high sex drive. I would play with all her sex toys with her.We started experimenting with fruit and other shaft looking objects. it kinda turned me on in a way.Recently though she has started taking it further, she asked me last night if I would do her with a fish.Is she just talking dirty or does she mean it?Please help.Thanks X
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reader, AskEve +, writes (6 July 2007):
 I agree with Dixiegirl here. Too much risk of infection to be sticking dead objects inside you! You have your own safety to think about here too. If she caught an infection from you thrusting anything dead up inside her then you have sex with her after it, guess who's also going to be infected?
It's entirely your call but if you want my advice I'd tell her to stick with inanimate objects, or it could be LIVE fish or worse still live hamsters next time and I'm serious here, where do you draw the line?
Eve
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 I suppose she means it. Now, if you don't want that, don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): ok ive seen videos of girls fucking them selves with fish...and personaly i think its kinda nasty! and its great that you guys are experimenting...but a fish takes it just a little too far. just tell her how you feel about it and i really think she will understand!
good luck!
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reader, jodi  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 maybe she has some image in her head that she wants to play in reality.. ask her.. communicate with her.. try not to get upset or be discouraged from enjoying your kinky episodes.. talk to her.. she'll answer.
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reader, Beckto +, writes (6 July 2007):
 You can't know if she's serious or not unless you ask her. If she is, then just tell her that you're totally happy experimenting and playing around, but that you've reached your threshold -- your experimental limit. It's ok to say "that's far enough for me." It doesn't mean you don't like her any less, it just means that's as far as you go.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (6 July 2007):
 No clue. Never heard of anyone wanting a fish. What's next, a dog?.....I would say, go with your gut. If it's starting to feel bizarre, it probably is. Some people take their fetishes to the extreme. Only you can decide when enough is enough. Good luck.
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