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female
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anonymous
writes:I met my first love at age of 14 after 1yr I had to leave a country to another but we were stil inlove with each other unfornatly we lost contacts and after 2yrs I met someone and before I knew it I was pregnt at age of 18 and 1yr later I got married to my baby's father and after a yr I went back to my village and I found that my x is married to but he is still have feeling for me and i love him to. I dont know what to do I feel so gilty;confused Reply to this Question
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (11 January 2015):
You were 14 when that happened. You need to understand it's just the temporary reminder of that infatuation steaming from both the sides.
You both are very different people now. It doesn't make any sense to give up on what you have, especially for something that might not even be there.
Don't put yourselves and your family through this. Trust me, it's not worth the trouble.
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female
reader, mystiquek  +, writes (11 January 2015):
 There is a very easy solution to your problem although I doubt if you want to hear it. Stay away. No contact with your ex. You are both married and what good can possibly come out of being in contact again? Don't tempt yourself with the proverbial forbidden fruit. Put him out of your mind and concentrate on your husband, your child and your future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2015): Simple remedy. Stay away from your ex. He has a wife, and you have a husband.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2015): There is nothing to do but carry on your life without him.
Don't talk to him about your feelings. To encourage him to have a relationship with you is selfish
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