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writes:Hi. im really scared of being on my own ive only just split with my one and only guy, my first everything basically, im feeling really lonely seeing him has someone else, ive not much confedence and all my mates have guys of there own,i dot feel atractive eventho people have said i am attractive but no guys ever fancy me apart from this one, i was beging to feel more confident about myself but now gone back to zeroPlease please please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Remember you coped just fine before he came along. And in time, you will again.
C xxxxx
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reader, shiraz +, writes (18 October 2008):
hiyah use this time to rebuild who you once were. your in a bad place right now, you have the right to mope for a bit but after you need to become you again. this could make or break you, and im not going to lie loosing your everything hurts like hell ya just want to forget but you need to know there is life after, you have other options become your own person again and enjoy it. your mates have got guys yeah but your the lucky free and single one! a bit of self confidence and you be good, its just getting that dont put yourself down ever you dont know if guys dont fancy you. nows the time to explore and find out and move on from the world youve been in for so long, its so easy to say that but you have to really want it for it to work.
Your mates have guys yeah but they can be solid rocks to you now, you need them more than ever trust me there guys will be put on hold for this situation, girls come first and all that! and its the last thing they will drag up with you, they have made there lives time to make a fresh of your own! dont let yourself go back, stop yourself before it happens you dont want that life so make a new one, one you do want.
hes moved on, you need too. dont dwell on what used to be focus on the positives and what can become!
Most of all enjoy it the more you smile the more you have fun, ebnjoy things the more your confidence will come back. it might not happen staright away but dont let thie wruin you.
feel free to post another question on anything i hope all goes well and you become your own person x:)x
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