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*orbidenbutsmitten
writes:I really fancy this 18 yr old i met on myspace and we flirted a little but i am not sure he likes me in the same way that i like him. I am only 12 so there is a big difference but i am just s in love with him but i cannot tell him because i dont want to freak him out or scare him off. He knows that i fancy him. I am just so worked up about it. There is not 5 minutes go by without me thinking about him. Oh please someone tell me what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): hey, i'm around your age. It happens to people when they go through this stage. Just leave it at the internet, you don't want to do anything dumb. Just find a person you can meet face-to-face witout being un-sure who he is. School's a good place to find a Boy Friend
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reader, Skeez +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Heya chick.
we are not being mean or anything. But if you two are having just normal talk on myspace then its fine. But then we are all telling you to watch out just incase he asks to meet up with you. Your 12 and hes 18. Probably 19 soon.
Its fine to keep a kool casual talk on the net. But then again he could have stolen those pictures from someone else and hes just a 40 year old perv on the net. Have you ever asked him to go on webcam or to give you a sign? To prove hes the person in the pictures?
And plus when he said you could be his girlfriend when you turn 16. Thats 4 years love. Hes going to be 22. Not trying to be mean but by then Im sure he would have some interest in a girl who is his own age. I highly doubt hes going to wait 4 years for a girl hes only met on the internet. Its logic. Not somehting Im trying to make you upset about.
Carry on with your talking but if he ever suggests meeting. say no! You know nothing about him. Yes you have talked to him on the net but that could all be a play. He may not be the nice kind loving guy he says he is. He may be violant and dangerous. your 12 hun. Way to young to even start thinking about boyfriends. This is the time of your life to have fun. Hang around with your friends and stay away from older men.
You know what Im syaing is sensible and Im sure your thinking 'No shes wrong' but im sure the majority of older woman will say the same thing as me.
Keep safe love.
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reader, forbidenbutsmitten +, writes (25 August 2007):
forbidenbutsmitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question I came here to ge advice and everyone is seeing him as a hormone ridden teenag boy but he isnt like that and he hasnt even suggeted anything of the sort.Why is everyone saying no?
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reader, forbidenbutsmitten +, writes (25 August 2007):
forbidenbutsmitten is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni apreciate your concern but i have seen loads of photos of him and i trust him. I have known him for months now and he said he might be my boyfriend when i am 16 and that was because i asked him.
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reader, forbidenbutsmitten +, writes (25 August 2007):
forbidenbutsmitten is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats just it he hasnt made any suggetion or anything like that and it was me who added him on myspace. He is amazed by the fact i like him and thats it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): Look chook, do some thinking. Your going through puberty, and some feelings you have yet to learn to control. This is one of them. Also decide what you would like to study, instead of boys. Try and enjoy being 12. It is a little unusual for an 18 yr-old to fancy a 12 yr-old. I made the mistake to think that I could meet someone at high school and we'ld be together forever. It very rearly hapens. Although some are lucky...I hope everything works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): This question looks a little bit fake, but just in case...My advice is, break off all contact if he made ANY suggestion to meet up or even suggested that he may like you in that way, or report his profile to the police. For crying out loud, you're twelve, he's eighteen. Any guy who would be interested in you at that age is NOT a good person. Find a boy closer to your own age, someone that wouldn't make you do things you simply aren't ready for, even if you think you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): No No No!!!!! he's 18 and your 12 for one thing he may not be who he says he is, never trust any one you meet on the internet like that, it's dangerous! and another thing is, he's 18 and your 12 if you ever even did anything which I'm really hoping your smart enough to take this advice and not do anything with him is that he could get in to trouble. Please don't do anything like meet him it's not safe!
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