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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi my husband went to hospital last week and i took his phone home with me but he told me to turn it off charge it up then bring it back to him, then in the morning i turned the phone on to phone his family and tell them he was in hospital and he got a text massage saying im at work today x. it didnt say who it was from it just left a number so i thought it must just be the wrong number, then about 10 min later there was another text but that just said ? so i phoned the number and a girl answered i hung up i was a bit shocked then another text saying what was that for, so i text her and said i was his sister she told me her name and asked if i would tell him to phone her when he got out of hospital,i asked my husband who she is he just said theres nothing going on and im being stupid but ive found another phone he just brought 2 weeks ago her number is on there with 2 texts. i went through his phones and every time she texts him he phones her. please tell me am i just being stupid or is there something going on?
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reader, Anonny +, writes (11 November 2008):
Yes - Lets hope you are wrong - but unfortunately the business with the phones!! - I know of someone who lived with his partner but was keeping in touch with another lady through someone else's phone!! - The guy wasn't actually having an affair but he didn't want his partner to know he was keeping in touch with another lady incase she jumped to the wrong conclusion!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Sorry does not look good do not be fooled!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): No you are not being stupid. Something's def going on. Just beware that your husband will try to make YOU feel guilty. Let him know that he will be giving up a lot if he's thinking of throwing what you have with him away. But don't turn psycho cuz that will just give him an excuse to leave you.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I will point out to the anonymous poster who said she keeps her old phone in case her new one breaks ~ only one phone will actually work on any given acount. When you purchase a new phone and it starts working the only phone automatically goes dead and no longer works. Purchasing even a dozen phones would not be any indication of deception or wrongdoing as they would be completely useless hunks of plastic and metal unless they are activated on an account! Her husbands second phone works, it takes texts and makes phone calls. It is not just a spare phone, it is a working phone. Therefore he had to actually open up a second account and get a separage phone number for this secret second phone. I would be extrememly suspicious of this activity. Alarm bells are ringing like crazy in my ears. I think something is indeed going on here. Whether an affair is going on or is still in the beginning stages this whole things says trouble to me. If this girl were nothing to worry about, just a friend, than she could be 'introduced' to the wife.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Sorry I wish I could say that you are worried over nothing, but in all honesty it doesn't look good.
The only way that you will find out the truth is to get in contact with this girl and tell her who you are. You could ask your husband, but I doubt he will be honest with you because he will be affraid.
The thing is darling, I do think that we have instincts when we are being lied to, but we very rarely act on them.
I really hope that it turns out to be a mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): It could all be entirely innocent. I do find it a bit odd that he seems to be at her beck and call all the time. I don't think having two phones means anything as such because I have kept my old phone in case my new one breaks and I definitely wouldn't even consider cheating. On the other hand, It is supposed to be quite common for cheaters to buy an additional phone. It doesn't sound like there is any concrete evidence as such, although I would certainly be extra vigilant and try to see if you can find out a bit more about this girl.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I think you need to have a serious chat with your husband as this seems very dodgy to me. You should have talked to the girl when you had the chance and found out what was going on.
I think you need to follow your instincts with this one as it could be your husband is up to no good.
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