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writes:hi,have been seeing this guy for 2 months but never been to his place. yesterday he took me to a lodge. i think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. should i talk to him about it or simply just move away. he doesnt answer my calls in the morning and i never see him during weekends, he says he is busy at work. to make matters worse i think i'm inlove with him and dread to find out what i'm suspecting help.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Drop him now before you get too attached. Married or not, he is not acting like a man who is interested in a relationship. I would just say point blank, if he isn't married something is wrong and don't get into an argument. Stay focused on what is best for you.
My experience with men is that if they are acting cold and distant so soon into things, it only gets worse and you end up wishing you never met the guy.
When you meet the right man he will make you feel like the most beautiful woman that ever walked the earth! When you are with the right man you won't have any doubts about him. If you waste one more minute with someone who is being standoffish, you might miss out on finding the man you are meant to be with.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I'm affraid I would agree with you, it does seem Suspicious. If you feel you are falling for him you need to talk to him, and get it out in the open. If he does have a wife, please dont fall for any lies or promises, the chances are, it will hurt you more in the end.
Good luck and remember that you are worth more than this.
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I think its best to ask him directly, he might end up telling you that he is married. Even if he doesnt, if this relationship isnt making you happy ie not getting enough attention from him then you should try and find yourself a more suitable partner. Challenge him - tell him that you will not be able to see him during work days due to some of your commitments and you will only be able to meet up with him on weekends, if he does fail to meet you then few times in a row, then I guess you have good enough reason to leave him.
All the best
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