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*ragon69
writes:so my wife and i have been together for 5yrs maried for 4. i love her to death i know you shouldnt say that but i do recently she asked me what i thought if she were to tell me i wanted a divorce. i told her she was crazy that she needed help. we have been through soo much in the past and we have always been by each others sides. recently she said she woke up and said she was thinking about this for about a couple months now. she doesnt have any feelings for me any more that she wanted me out to get sep and she was going to get the divorce papers. she already has all my things piled in the front room of our house ready for me to tae out. i spent some time with her the other day talking about it. told her i understand why she feels this way that i kept asking to be takin back in the past for the same reason and she did. but she said now is final. when i was with her we hugged and there were times we hugged and i didnt have to ask for it. my question is do you think there is a spark still there and how can i prolong this seperation to get my life back together and talk her into starting this relationship over clean slate kinda thing?Please help me!
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reader, dragon69 +, writes (17 May 2008):
dragon69 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok so we are talking more now i try not to call her when we do talk she is in a happy mood laughes jokes around and we often talk about sex. we have had amazing sex the last 2 weeks total of 4 times doing things we never did b4. she keeps telling me theres no chance of her turning back but then she always brings up that there is a small glimpse of hope.. can someone expliain to me what that means cause i'm teetering on the edge of insanity lol.
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reader, glicey  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Am really sorry that its very unfortunate your honey wants
out. However i want to warn you about one thing as you crave to keep gong on with this relate, you can take an animal to the well but can never force it to drink.
I would advise you to think abt looking for a whole new life before u regret.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 It seems she is very much determined to divorce. Sometimes you need to be brave: holding on to the love that used to exist is like prolonging your agony. I'm sorry to say that this is one of such times. If she wants to go, let her go, as quickly as possible. You can't avoid it; you can only make it all the more difficult for both of you.
Good luck.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Oh Hun, I'm sorry to hear that your wife has finished with you. You deserve a proper explaination as to why she has thrown in the towel on your marriage, go and see a marriage councellor together and get to the bottom of this.
Is there a third party involved? Sorry I had to ask, but it could be your wife may have met someone else. Who knows?? If you would like to privately message me feel free. Then you could tell me more and then we can take it from there. Take care. Dusky xxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): If she doesn't see you as a husband, then there is nothing you can do. From your post it sounds like she sees you as more than a buddy than a mate. Maybe she isn't sexually attracted to you anymore. Maybe she found someone else already, or she wants to. I would not try to get her back. Filing for divorce is an extreme move and it means she doesn't want to be your wife any longer. I'm sorry.
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