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writes:ok first age is wrong im 16... took over my sister's acount and dont know how to change the age!I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the point that I felt so alone I cried every night. I have never had problems with making friends and get anlong with many people, usually people that are older. I felt so pressured last summer to have sex that I gave up my virginity to someone I barely knew, I let my best friend treat me like shit and didnt stand up for myself, I let everything that anyone said get to me. This past winter I started dating this guy that is very sweet and caring, and he goes to a different school. In the past I have tried alcohol smoking regular stuff too. I had been dating the guy for 4 months before everything went downhill. I loved school while dating him i had many friends and everything was great. Something I know is wrong with me though because I found myself trying to get pregnant with him. I wouldn't keep the baby but I just felt like I needed something else...I don't know what. I started becoming friends with this 23 year old women through sports and hung out with her a few times a week for practicing soccer. I stared to changemy attitude more carefree and slutty I would say. I feel influenced subconsiously by people. Then with my boyfriend I started to get bored which I think is normal but then something really bad happened. I was just getting a little tipsy with my friend and we called this guy 4 years older and we both hooked up with him like a threesome...and i had sex with him...the next morning I didnt feel guilty or anything and i wanted to be single for the summer. We hung out and were a little drunk with the older guy again and we had a threesome again. Then it got out to the whole school... my boyfriend never found out but i broke up with him just wanting to be best friends.. we hung out as friends yesterday and things were fine..i have really bad anxiety and i cant help but feel alone... and feel like life will go by way too fast. Is there anyone out there that can help me... I don't know whats wrong with me but I am obviously not in good health, please dont be critical it wont help me. i am on anti depression medication but I need more help please do!..
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (16 June 2009):
 First realize how young you still are. Believe me, I know that you feel like life is going by way too quick but please allow yourself to slow down a little.
Your medication may need adjusting or changed. One medication that may be good for one person may cause another person to experience a whole host of problems. When you next see your doctor let him/her know how you are feeling.
Another thing is, it sounds like you are trying to grow up too fast. Please just take things as they come. Be a kid for just as long as you can. You only have your childhood for a few short years and then it is gone forever.
I have heard so many talk about how they had to grow up too fast and how they wish they could have their childhood back. Enjoy it while you have it. There is plenty of time for the adult things you may be trying to take on too soon.
I am sure you are aware that sex is really too soon for you at this age as well so I won't ride you about that but understand that now since you have started down that road you will have to concern yourself with more on the subject of personal care, like regular check ups, pap smears etc.
This coupled with your age may be toying with your hormone levels which can cause you emotional upheaval.
If you need to talk further please feel free to message me personally if you need to talk on a more private level.
I hope things go well for you. Doc
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reader, GabiLC +, writes (15 June 2009):
 The first thing you need to do is to go back to your doctor. Ask to have your hormone levels checked and to change your depression dosage or the medicine all together. Then you need better friends who do not do harmful things and have goals. You should start planning your goals also. Start playing a sport to relieve some stress. I used to do powerlifting and swimming, which helped me tremendously. If you need to go as far as getting a life coach, do it! I hope this helps.
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