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writes:What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began. I don't! Additional DetailsShe is the one who dumped me...if that matters. I dont think she is trying to make me jealous though because then she would be calling all the time right???The only thing I did was ask HER SISTER how the cat was and if i could see it. Her sister offered the cat to me...then my ex- girfriend ran into my friend and she said "oh have him call me" I didn't and SHE was the one to ask for my number. I eventually text her and she called me and we had the above conversation. Other than that I have not contacted her once.Oh and after she asked "do you need something..i texted back "just saying hi".. she didnt answer back and havent talked sense that was 2 weeks ago.I'm 25 now and she is 22. We met when she was 17. We both lost our virginity to one another
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reader, KnH89 +, writes (15 October 2007):
Shes messing with your head. Shes trying to find out what your doing in your life without her and if she can control you. Maybe her and her boyfriend arent getting along. Is she the type that doesnt like to be single? She could be getting in touch to see if she could get you back incase her and her boyfriend break up, but she dont really want you, she just doesnt want to be alone, if that is even the case. If not shes just immature playing stupid little girl games, you dont need that bs.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 I think the guys that have answered already have got it exactly right, unfortunatly us women can play silly games sometimes and do you know the worst thing is we think we are clever and you don't know whats going on.
She was trying to make you jealous, she had no other reason to tell you she was going away with her boyfriend, and as for the rest of it she was just fishing and trying to find out what you have been up to.
I would just get on with your life and have nothing more to do with her, you have done ok up until now without her.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 October 2007):
She has a cruel streak. She was just testing to see if she still has power over you. You put a smile on her face. Don't play with her any more. Find yourself a new gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): She's playing stupid games with your mind, and with everyone else around her by the sound of it.
Forget about her and get on with the rest of your life!
Phil
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