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writes:I am in a idiotic relationship with this guy who I have been in love with for over two years. All I have gotten from him is hurt, pain and tears and problems with my family and friends. Recently, he has become better, pays more attention and on the whole treats me better( probably because his best friend has a crush on me and so does his brother) but the problems still follow me till now. If my parents find out they'll go mad and it seems as if I am going to lose some dear friends bacause of him. He really isn't worth it. I think I'm not sure but how can I leave now when he is treating me better? Does it make any sense?
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reader, missdee +, writes (2 October 2005):
Life is to short to live it miserable. It's your life do what you need to do to be happy. Your parents should stand behind you no matter what you decide to do as long as you are happy, and your friends if they are true friend will be there for you too, regardless of if you are with your boyfriend or not. Only you know if he can make up for what he has done in the past to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2005): Oh stop..already! No one is forcing you to be with this guy that you don't want to be with. Get tough and tell him it's over and walk away, dear. If the situation was reversed and he wanted to leave you..he wouldn't hesitate. Stop and think about it..he sounds very immature, very needy and he's treated you badly-don't you think you deserve someone better? Of course you do.
Stop sacrifcing yourself at the alter of his neediness. You owe him nothing. Accept that it didn't work and you are not happy with him. Tell him that..be kind but walk away from this with some dignity. You owe it to yourself.
Get out and live life to the fullest and love yourself enough not to feel guilt about staying in a "nowhere" relationship. Be strong, girl...and just end it.
Hugs,
Irish
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