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writes:Hey Okay this has really gotten to me nowI was giving my boyfriend oral sex and ive never before had any conplaints.but he said that it hurt.Hes in full health and his penis is fine, it never hurts any other time and I think I'm being a little too rough lol..any tips on how not to be rough please?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 The genital areas of both male and female can be quiet sensitive. The skin in that area is often extremely thin and can cause pain during the sexual act. Some people are just more sensitive than others also. You might try using something to help in lubricating the genital area during this time so it will prevent rubbing the skin to the point where it might cause pain. You also must consider the pain and how or when it actually began. When you take all of this into consideration you will probably be able to make mental note about what could be done to correct this problem. Also you should take your time in performing the act because being in a rush could cause complications and it might make the pain worse. So relax,and make sure you can let your partner know that it's ok. Use lubrication and give yourself the time to make things the best it can be for you both. I hope this helps. Remember this ..at your age however abstinence still might be the best thing . If you must then as they say "Practice makes perfect?" In case it continues with no let up or increased pain then ask your partner to seek the adivce of a professional. God bless and may your decisions be all that they should.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (21 October 2007):
The genital areas of both male and female can be quiet sensitive. The skin in that area is often extremely thin and can cause pain during the sexual act. Some people are just more sensitive than others also. You might try using something to help in lubricating the genital area during this time so it will prevent rubbing the skin to the point where it might cause pain. You also must consider the pain and how or when it actually began. When you take all of this into consideration you will probably be able to make mental note about what could be done to correct this problem. Also you should take your time in performing the act because being in a rush could cause complications and it might make the pain worse. So relax,and make sure you can let your partner know that it's ok. Use lubrication and give yourself the time to make things the best it can be for you both. I hope this helps. Remember this ..at your age however abstinence still might be the best thing . If you must then as they say "Practice makes perfect?" In case it continues with no let up or increased pain then ask your partner to seek the adivce of a professional. God bless and may your decisions be all that they should.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm I don't think its that..
I was wondering if its possible - saying this I dont what guys feel when they are turned on - but it was...throbbing too much...like maybe too much blood rushed to his penis?
and peoriaman - it was while I was doing it, he stopped me, told me it was hurting, I asked him was i doing something wrong, (we're both pretty inexpierienced), he masturbated for a few seconds and then asked me to continue. So masturbating helped. Maybe I'm too slow? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol i dont use my teeth...I'm not that stupid...damn that must hurt a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): No teeth!
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