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Opinions needed! How can I put the spark back into our relationship?

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Question - (19 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *ep516 writes:

How do I get the spark back in our relationship? We have been together for 9 years and my wife has said she is missing that spark between us. What should I do? Any suggestions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

take her somewhere nice as a special break.

get her to go out with a skirt and no undies on

offer to massage her

buy her flowers?

dont go to work phone in sick and her and then spend day in bed.

buy a toy.

- anyway just some quick thoughts....

Star.x.

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A female reader, loving arms United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2009):

Not a lot go go on... but i'l give it a go. If you work how about phoning from work to say don't cook dinner love let's eat out tonight. Or organise a baby sitter and surprise her with a night out somewhere different.. maybe theatre then a meal.

I found i just missed the conversation between my husband and myself. We seemed to stop sharing things. Cuddle her for no other reason than because you love her. Leave little notes for her to find.

If you both work, help with the house work so you actually get to spend some time together when its all done.

Ask her what she thinks will help to find the spark. What does she miss?

The fact that you're here asking for help tells me you're a keeper so good luck mate be happy xxx

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