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writes:My fiance and I just found out we are expecting a little one (due nov 3). We were doing great but I had to quit my one job because if not it couldve hurt the baby so now we are kinda in a lil financial bind. His parents offered us their upstairs, which woulld include a room 4 us and a room 4 the baby. I'm very unsure of this but we cant continue living like we are now especially with a baby. His parents are great and all but I think it would be way too much stress on our relationship living with them. He is dead set on moving there and moving asap. I'm also afraid that if we do move there that he will go back to his old ways and act immature again. He has only been away from his parents for 7 months and it seems to me that he could easily go back to depending on them like before. Am I wrong for feeling this way? And what other option do I have?
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reader, jill rae +, writes (19 March 2009):
I am also pregnant and living wit my b/fs parents. They have been wonderful to us and my b/f tries even harder to show his parents what a mature and great guy he is. SO it has worked out (so far) for us.
Tell him about your worries. Explain to him that you two are a couple and about to be paretns so he cant depend on them like a teenager. Tell him that you will move in on a trail basis and see how that goes.
Good luck
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