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writes:This is one long story. Ok here goes. He knew I fancied him for a long time but one of his good friends liked me and I was close to him, so he kept away. Then in May/June and July my crush and I got v.close. People spoke about us and all. We neevr went out but acted like we did. Infact he even told his mate to tell me that I should ask him out. I didnt but we did everything together and everyone thought we were going out!Then I went on holiday and when I came back he was involved with annother girl over the end of summer as I was with a guy on holiday.When college started, we were close for a while but not in a way that we were. It seemed that we had lost that. I still fancied him and I heard that he still liked me. But he would make me jealous by sitting with his ex or other girls and look in my direction to see if I was getting annoyed. I started avoiding him. Infact things are so awkward. I mean I still like him and I know he likes me too because he continues to stare at me. And he told one of my friend about how I used to fancy him and how he thought I was pretty and that he could have a good conversation with me. he also told her that he is causally seeing someone. But he has always done this to make me jealous. I pretend to get annoyed with him. And lately we have been blanking each other I really fancy him still...and deep down inside I know he knows that and feels something for me because he always stares at me and when I look at him he looks away. I really need someone's help on this situation. Also he hints once in a while how he'd want to sleep with me
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 I'm with Peoriaman and dearkelja. Be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Soulds like he wants to make sure you know the option is there to get with him. But it doesn't sound like he minds being with someone else at the same time either.
He may be wondering if you'll date him because he's considering leaving his GF, or he may just be trying to see if you're screw him behind his GF's back. Or he may just be messing with you because he's "taken" and it's kinda naughty & fun to get suggestive with you at the same time even though he's not gonna follow through with anything.
Either way, he should go about things in a little better & more mature manner.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 Think hard. This man sounds a little immature. Trying to make you jealous, asking to sleep with you. A good man would treat you better than that. Sometimes it doesn't matter what we feel for someone or what they feel for us. Timing comes into play and it sure seems like your guys' timing is off. You don't have to blank him but work towards getting back that good conversation/friendship you once had. If he continues to blank him, chalk him up to "too immature for me".
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