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On off boyfriend of 4 years doesn't want to date but wants to borrow money!

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Question - (21 September 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi Cupid, I've been dating this Scorpio Guy on and off for about 4 years. Now he had broke up with me and told me that we were not compatible but wants to borrow money and he says he's in love with me. I'm so confused what kind of game is he playing with me.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (22 September 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntit's use and abuse. he wants money. JUST SAY NO.

what he says is not what he does.. .and what he does is what you need to listen to.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (22 September 2011):

CindyCares agony auntA not so secret game. He'll be all lovey dovey until he gets from you the money he wants, after which either he'll realize that you are not meant to be, or perhaps he'll just vanish up in thin air and you'll never see him, or your money, again.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (22 September 2011):

Ciar agony auntThere is nothing to be confused about. When someone's words don't match their actions, you go by their actions.

Decline his request and sever ties. Problem solved.

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A female reader, neomum United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2011):

He is using you for your money don't give him any and change your number so he has no way of contacting you. men like him are cads and have no way of dating you or anyone else. Find someone that wants you and not your money.

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A female reader, KittieS United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2011):

KittieS agony auntA game that you really don't need to be a part off - I would suggest!

Don't lend him money your never get it back, sounds like a case of I will tell you what you want to hear so I can get something out of you.

Not a scorpio trait (loyal, loving creatures us Scorpios - well the good ones anyway) sounds like it's just a trait of someone who's not good enough for you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011):

well you already know what kind of game he is playing-one were he tells you want you what to hear so he can get money out of you!

ditch this loser and let him borrow money elsewere, better yet tell him you dont have an money to give him and see how far he runs!

you can do better!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011):

I had someone do this to me, in my experience he is using you. He doesn't want to be with but wants to use your feelings for him to get money from you. My advice is don't lend him any money at all. It only leads to heartache that you don't deserve.

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