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writes: Hi.I like this guy i havent seen for a long time, i've only seen him on the internet lately, he is really good looking ,i know him in person aswell, and he saw some new photos of me as I am now and he asked me if I wanted to have sex !.How should I respond ?.We are both in our twenties.I dont want to write in too much detail incase this person ever sees this message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): well, what do you want to do ? if you think it's something you also feel you want to do then go for it... but ask yourself this, ''should i do this , because he is sooo nice and im just curious to know what its like to sleep with a budd?' net bud or not you should only do this if it only feels right for you and that it will not ruin your friendship after...dont let peer pressure get in the way of what your 'head' is telling you. If you are old fashioned like me and want a relationship then dont do it.. if you're not and you are happy to do it then go for it regardless what others think.... as long as you wont be hurting others then id say go have some fun girl and good luck what you decide!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Say no. If he said I want to use you? what would be your answer? Thats the real question.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 If you want to fuck him , tell him to come over quickly right now!
If you don't want ,tell him to get lost!
If you want to be funny, tell him you got AIDS!
If you want to tease him,tell him you are just married.
No insults or offense intended.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): It is not up to us to say Yes or No. You must know your own mind by now. If you want to have sex with him then go ahead, if you know him and feel comfortable with him and want to. But dont be forced into doing something that you dont want to do. If you do have sex, then make sure you use protection.
take carexx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 That is you choice isn't it, are you up for a one nightstand?
Because this is nothing more then that. He wants a fuck and that is it, this won't turn into a relationship. Ever.
You are clearly not comfortable with the idea, else why ask? So don't. Not all people want this kind of sex for the sake of sex deal and don't let others pressure you into something you don't want to do.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (24 March 2008):
If you are both in your twenties you are old enough to know all the possible consequences of a one night stand.Should you sleep with him? No one can tell you, you may have a great time and both carry on your own lives with no issues. You may end up with a life ending disease or pregnant and never be able to be civil let alone friends again.I have done friends with benefits and it has worked. I have done a one night stand with a friend and it has ruined the relationship. No one knows what the end result will be even if you think you know each other well but to me it doesnt bode well if someone says they want sex
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