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writes:I'm in a new relationship.Now I am my friend has asked me to make a choice between him and my new boyfriend.I waited for my friend to ask me for weeks, I was mad about him. But instead he hinted about enjoying being single and not wanting a relationship. He chooses now when circumstances have changed.a part of me wants to just say yes because my feelings for him. But I am in a relationship it's wrong. I am hoping they go away in time with my new relationship and my feelings will grow for my bf. Right now my heart wants my friend but my head wants this new relationship. I have already spoke to my friend, let him know why I chose not to wait and start a fresh with someone new. Because waiting around was hurting.But I need to speak to my boyfriend. He's mentioned my friend and says he seems very jealous and protective. It's fairly obvious to him. What can I do?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (7 August 2012):
 You gave your friend a chance and he blew it. Apparently he thought you were going to sit around and cry over him instead of find someone new. I would ignore your friend and move on. I know it is hard, but do you want someone playing with your emotions like this in all situations? If he did this to you once, it is likely he will do similar things again.
I would tell your friend that you are currently dating someone else and you are sorry, but the time for you as a couple is over. Then, do not communicate with him in anyway and block him from all social networking sites. I bet you will find that you are a lot happier when he is out of your life.
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