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writes: I maybe pregnant but I am not really sure yet. The only evidence that I have that I have missed my period fot this month, but could it happened because I hade mines two times in the last month (in the beginning of the month and close to the end). Well If I am I think I know what I am going to do next have an abortion. I know some people agree with in and other do not, but I do not think I am fully ready for a child in mylife at this moment of time. I am was just wondering from other who went through it what was the steps that u took from when you found out , that you were expecting , to the abortion and how did u feel in the end. Also did you go through the act within a hospital or a clinic ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): i had an abortion and im 14 its not the best thing to go trough i regretted my decision for sometime if i was careful and used protection the first time i wouldnt be like this but i did it becuase i was scared to tell my mom but later on me and mom were talking and i told of course she was upset but i felt better she told me i could have had the baby instead of killing it and thats a decision i will regret for the rest of my life so like everbody else has said think long and hard about it nd if u do choose to have it u kno there is always someone willing to help u
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reader, pica +, writes (3 September 2006):
I had one years ago, at 17. Very traumatic time after, messed up my life BUT I don't regret it because no way was I/we ready for a child and it doesn't sound like you are either. What I do regret is that it happened at all - I was sloppy with contraception and just thought it wouldn't happen to me. So don't take risks. Get counselling from an impartial organisation before you make any decision. Hopefully you'll be all clear anyway. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): hi hun, i had an abortion when i was 17, it was horrible, i know it was the right thing to do at the time but still, when i say horrible i dont mean painful not phyically anyway, its a very emotional thing, you need to think carefully what you really want, if you go ahead with it and regret it, it can cause emotional stress for some time, i felt guilt and regret, i even started drinking more to try to forget it! i just wish i was more careful in the first place! if you are, go straight to the doctors, dont hang around, he will tell you to think carefully, maybe tell a close friend or relative, just think of reasons to keep the baby and reasons not to, i mean some believe in fate and this may be your time to have children xx
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (2 September 2006):
 Being a guy, I obviously never experienced an abortion, but I paid for one when I was 18 and my gf was 15. Looking back, I wish we could have found a way to have the baby. If we couldn't have afforded to keep the baby, he/she could have been placed in the home of people that would love to have a baby and can't (for medical reasons, etc.) I have felt guilty about that decision over the course of my life.
My advice to you is to think long and hard about your decision. It is a matter of life or death.
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