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*oey Tribbiani
writes:i've been seeing a girl for about 10 months!! We do have a lot of fun together, we have sex and sometimes she stays over the night !!Today she sent me a mssg saying 'love you'!She seems really nice, she's beautiful,smart, cares a lot abt me, and i knw she's really into me but didnt expect she would send me a msg like that !!I had a pretty serious relationship with my ex, we (actually she)broke up 3years ago and im completly over her! But, i really got hurt when she broke up so im quite not sure for another that kinda serious relationship!! I dnt wanna get hurt again!!And she also had a break up when we first met !!I dnt knw what to do!! Should I take this relationship to the next level?I do have feelings for this girl and I really like her!! Just not sure is it love that im feeling! Help out plz!
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reader, Joey Tribbiani +, writes (4 September 2013):
Joey Tribbiani is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u guys! :)
I guess i'll wait for a little longer, give us both a little more time to think and see whr it goes!
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reader, Jammin75  +, writes (3 September 2013):
If you've got to think about it, then the answer is no you don't love her. Do nothing, let it carry on as it is. If it develops then it will naturally. As for getting hurt, I reckon if she dumped you tomorrow you'd be hurt anyway if you're being honest with yourself.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 September 2013):
 You will know it when you are ready for the next level. I hope that you are already dating exclusive. Some men feel that the next level, (yes at 10 months) mean not dating other people. Saying love you, in a text does not mean move it to the next level. It's just an expression of her fondness for you. Men look at the L word as in giving his whole life for her, his soul is at her disposal. You need to learn to take this word with some lightheartedness. It's like when you sign a Birthday Card, you end it with Love you. Even if you break up with her later your L words are not in vain. They would not be deceptive. I understand that the L word can be misused quite often. It is up to you if you want to say it back to her. Hopefully she will look at your actions and see if you do love her. I personally would like to see actions, over hearing just "I like you a lot or I care for you." These words for me mean nothing.
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