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writes:So for the past 6 weeks, I have had class with this guy and there has been flirting between us. Last week, we decided to go out after an exam...and his friends were supposed to go as well. When I showed up to his apartment, he informed me that his friends weren't coming. Nevertheless, we still went out. I got a tiny bit buzzed. I wasn't really into dancing that night because I am still nervous around him. I find myself constantly intimidated by him and a guy hasn't made me feel this unsure in such a long time. Anyways, we went back to his apartment, watched some TV and then we ended up making out...and he wanted to take it further, but I let him know that I am a virgin and I'm not sure if he was bothered by this or not. Then I left about 30 minutes later...and we really haven't discussed what happened...and I think we're both acting weird now. I mean, we still talk but the flirtation is less noticeable. So my questions are, does this guy like me (I mean really like me...not just physically; i know I'm good looking) and what should I do? I'm really bad at all this stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, what do I do because we just pretend it didn't happen...and today I had an quote as an away message talking about time...and then he put up an away message that said time goes by and god knows i try...i'm not sure if it was targeted towards me or if i'm just reading into things. I'm a very shy girl and it's really hard for me to just feel comfortable in these situations and communicate. I usually just stay introverted and avoid things. I think he might think that I'm acting weird, because I am just a tiny bit. eeek. Oh and basically classes end this friday and i'm going back home for 6 weeks so I don't know if I should say something...(which would be really hard) or if I should just keep it as is?
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 well i love the way he got u round and u ended up alone. maybe he does like u but don't rush into things get to know him first there could be things u don't like bout him but well done for sayin no to him that was a shock to him. good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): He called you for a reunion, and then said his friends weren't coming. Sounds like a perfect strategy for you two to be alone, I would have preferred an honest approach if I were you! He wanted to take things further at the first date although you didn't know each other well enough, and the change in his behaviour, his becoming more detached regarding what happened, isn't exactly a +. You should know him better, understand his logic, if any, and only then make a decision...
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