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writes:I met a girl on Saturday and I thought we had a good conversation abit maybe a little drunk. I phoned up after we left the nightclub and spoke for about an hour. I thought I had spoken to her before that night (on a previous night). She seemed very receptive and seem positive when I touched her arm, her friend tried to get my attention while I spoke to her. I also kissed her as she left. I texted her yesterday (Wednesday) but elicited no response. Should I just leave it? I was thinking about calling. I don't have much time left before I leave this city. I am also not really looking for a relationship.Thanks. :)
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Well if she has just stopped talking to you altogether then leave it, but if she does get in touch again as I said before it is best to be honest and explain your situation.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe's actually the one that's not texting back. I didn't have enough time to see her again by chance is my point.
Thanks.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (8 July 2010):
Well if you are leaving plus you are not looking for a relationship then I think it is best to be honest with her - call her and tell her you had a great time with her on Saturday and she is a great girl but you are moving away soon so you dont feel it is the right time to be dating. Wish her all the best and leave it at that.
Dont just stop speaking to her altogether and never explain why, that is just bad mannered and rude. Be honest with her and she will appreciate that.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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