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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've been single for a while (9 months), and by saying I've been single, I also mean celibate. I haven't even dated anyone until now, so am feeling socially challenged to my list of concerns.I am all kinds of nervous about sex with someone new, self-conscious, mostly. I've met a wonderful guy, who really is my best friend. He hasn't had sex in quite some time either, (a year). When we had our first kiss, everything was silly and awkward, but great after we got the hang of it, again.Last night I performed oral on him, and that was probably almost as good for me as it was for him. But, when it came to sealing the deal, I got self conscious and began to get really nervous. He's so patient, and isn't putting any pressure on me, but I really want to have sex with him. What bothers me the most, is worry that I'll taste bad, or smell bad.
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reader, Love4Life  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 My best advice is to shower before or during sex. I Love to go down on a woman in the shower. Shes clean Im clean and sex itself is a dirty act. But if your fear is you'll smell bad rest assure if you take a shower before you should be good to go. I have never complained about waiting while a woman takes time to clean but make it fun shower sex is great. P.S. Shower Sex will also boost his fear. Men have the same fears. First times are important together
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