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writes:i need some advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've been friends for about 10 months and been together for 7 of those! we used to get on so well. hes the nicest guy you could ever meet. im at uni so we could only see each other every 2 weeks or so which sucked but it was great to see him. Recently he stopped texting me and i stopped hearing from him. I would text him and get no reply for days and then it was really short! he doesnt put any kisses at the end of his messages anymore! he told me a few weeks ago that he was going to be starting a new course and he wouldnt be able to see me for 5 months because he was going to be busy! i said that it was stupid and we would arrange to meet up the same as usual and he just said no!! he said he cant see me at all for the next 5 months! so i got really angry! I had it out with him on the phone then he said that hes got a solution. He said that we can see each other twice a week! thats a big difference from 5 months!! Whats wrong with him?? is he scared about this relationship or something?? the thing is, i dont know if i want to be with him anymore and the thought that the relationship could be over doesnt really upset me as much as i thought it would. i think this is mostly to do with the fact that i have the most amazing friend by my side that i talk to every day--i miss her more than i miss him!Do you think i should stay in this relationship? what should i do?? im really stuck!!Lots of advice would be appreciated! thankyou!!!xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 In short: I think you shouldn't stay in the relationship.
Let's assume he's telling the truth about his being unable to see you for a whole five months. If he cared about you, he would find the way to see you. But, I don't think he is telling the truth. When you called him, he suddenly found a solution: seeing each other as you used to. I think this is so strong a change. And then, he stopped answering your texts and all. I don't think he is into you anymore.
And then, if you don't really miss him, why stay?
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 hey hun, i think you should really break up with him and just be friends, or just forget about him, He may have another girlfriend on the side but who knows but if you really feel that you arent going to get upset if you leave him then do it now that way you dont have to worry about him or anything he is doing.
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