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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everybody! How is it going?I need your guys help on this thing, I've never had a longboard relationship, but i blame it on me, I never had patience to put up with relationship issues and never looked for it. Although, I also never had problems with girls since I had lots of one night stand after clubs.The thing is there is this girl on my college, she is cute, smart and really nice with everybody(always smiling) and also is kinda geek.I usually wear different clothes that reflects my personality, and she always says she likes it. Well I didn't talked too much to her before because she had a boyfriend and I didn't want to get involved because i knew I liked her. Now she broke up, after a couple weeks we started to chat and talk a lot, she is a girl that is very focused on her work and on her studies, when I tried to make my first move she started to avoid me, I realized and I changed the approach. Today we were talking about her spare time and these things (I always have to start the conversation) and she mentioned that she worked in a charity once per month, I am not a charity guy however I saw the opportunity to try to know her better and to try to get closer, she went crazy when I said I was interested on her work at the charity.My question is, based on the story above, what do u guys think? Should I keep playing this game? Will it work? Does she like me or she is just being nice? This girl is being a challenge for me and I'm liking it so I m not willing to give up on her
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (27 August 2016):
 Sorry man. She is not interested in you at all:(
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (27 August 2016):
 You need to give up; she's not interested.
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reader, N91 +, writes (27 August 2016):
 She doesn't sound Interested at all. You said you made a move and she started to avoid you, what part of that makes you think she likes you?
Leave her be and move on
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (27 August 2016):
 What on earth do you mean by "when I tried to make my first move"? What did you do to scare her off?
Why don't you just treat this girl as a friend and see where things go from there? Spend time with her as a friend and you should be able to suss out whether she is interested in your romantically.
The fact that she "went crazy" re the charity work would lead me to think (1) you are moving too fast, (2) she may be being polite to you and not be interested in any further involvement with you.
Back off, stop treating this like a military maneuver or a "game". See this girl as a human being, not a potential conquest.
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