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female
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26-29,
*iryuu
writes:Hello Aunt and Uncle agonys!Here it is. I met a new guy friend at youth. Don't worry, we have at least 30 minutes to hang out before service starts. BTW I broke up wiht my ex-boyfriend, S, and I'm fine, besides I'm homeschooled and he's not so things didn't really wrok out but we're still friends; anyway, this other boy was wierd, at first he was all friendly and flirty then next week when I see him, he hates me! This happens over and over again. What should I do? He keeps changing his attitude! Help me plz?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2011):
I suspect it's a case of immaturity. Teenage guys aren't exactly renowned for the sensitivity and understanding. They have hormones that run all over the place, and sometimes it means their feelings are all over the place.
It could very well be that this guy is a classic teenage boy and really doesn't know how to get your attention. So, he alternates between being nice and nasty because that's all he can do. It could just be that he's not a nice guy.
The best thing you can do is probably get to know him as a guy and see where it leads. You'll know quickly whether he's just shy/classic teenage boy, or whether he's just a nasty piece of work. Take your time, get to know him a lot more and make a decision yourself about whether he's worthy or not.
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