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writes:Himy wife has been away with work on several occation in the past few months. our sex life had been ok but since she as been away she seem to be differant in areas of what she does.over the weekend she offered oral sex which i have always had to ask for, and been a bit more adventureous do you think she could have met someone.she has bought new underwear and seems to be looking good. i don't want to say anything but what should i look for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): When my wife started seeing someone, her sex drive increased and she started paying a lot more attention to how she looked naked. I think that when she started seeing him, but not for sex, she found the situation arousing. They've been to some very cold and romantic places together where they would have huddled together for warmth, but I doubt if they've had sex yet. He's leaving the area soon, and I don't know how I'll deal with it when she goes to visit him. I'm paying her as much attention as I can in the hope of getting her back, but she often smiles to herself and seems preoccupied.
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reader, missyrenee  +, writes (8 December 2008):
She is either trying to change and make sex more fun and enticing OR she is definately seeing someone and using you as her prop while fantasizing about the other.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Well this is a real shot in the dark. ANYTHING is possible. These are some of the signs that COULD be clues of something going on. I stress the word COULD. I've read when people have a sudden change of behavior it is often for a reason. If you are having serious issues with this it may be a good idea to talk to her. Ask her about her sudden changes and why they've occurred.
Before you do this though, give this some serious thought. If you have other more obvious proof, sit back and watch. Then it will be easier to prove your point.
Finally, if you had discussed sex with your wife before and complained about it, perhaps this is her effort to try harder. Whatever you decide, keep your cool. People often lie when they are harshly accused of something.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Anything is possible, but I think if anything, her sex drive for you would have DECREASED if she is seeing someone else, i.e. she'd want sex less and have less enthusiasm for it. Maybe "looking good" as you put it has given a boost to her confidence in bed. It's hard sometimes for a woman to be uninhibited in bed if she is concerned about what you may be thinking when you see her naked from various, possibly less than flattering, angles. Either way, what you have described here is not really grounds for suspicion. Take her new adventurousness at face value (and enjoy it with her!) unless she gives you further reason to be suspicious. Good luck =]
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